Our regularly scheduled blog post has been hijacked and tucked away for safe keeping in order to chat about Advent.
|Christmas Tree at the Vatican|
Don’t you love Advent? I know this can be a particularly busy, stressful – and for some, an emotionally difficult time of year. Even with all the scramble to prepare baking, all the special housekeeping, the unpleasant foray into shops and malls, I do feel an underlying peace in these days of preparation. I love that winter is still new enough that we’re not yet tired of colder weather and fresh snowfalls. I so enjoy the window displays of homes and shops, and seeing how the city streets have been decorated. I appreciate the general expectation of goodwill among men at this time, and how we’re thinking of others when we send out cards, buy little gifts, make a donation, or volunteer our time. Advent comes at a time of year that seems to be naturally reflective: the year is drawing to a close, we’re remembering Christmases past, and invoking long practiced traditions.
|Christmas Market in Basel, Germany|
Traditions. Every family has their own way of observing Advent and preparing for Christmas. In our home, there were key events I looked forward to every year: the making of the fruit cake. If mom made it early enough, it would be quite tipsy come Christmas day. The tipsier, the better! St. Nicholas (Sinterklaas in Dutch) on Dec. 5 when we would put out a shoe and hope to get treats rather than coal, and have a veritable feast of cookies and chocolate letters. The gradual bringing out of Christmas decorations including the Nativity scene; the Three Wise Guys who travelled around the living room closer and closer to the Nativity each day; the nutcrackers that looked like soldiers; and best of all were little brass angels hanging in a circle over little candles. The warmth of the candles caused the angels to spin, striking little bells – angels and bells, what could be better than that? We put up our tree on Christmas Eve day, and decorated it that evening. Then we’d retreat to our own rooms to wrap our presents, sneaking downstairs to hide them under the tree as they were done, one by one, tiptoeing into each other’s room to wrap certain presents together, and making a very big deal about being in on a secret. Then, the pinnacle of waiting: Midnight Mass – such a beautiful liturgy. And of course the treats that come only at this time of year: Stollen with marzipan, tangerines, and eggnog!
|Sinterklaas and Black Peter|
One tradition I particularly loved was “Christkind” or Christ Child. We would draw names within the family, and for the person whose name we drew we would do something nice every day without them knowing who did it. We would buy one small gift for that person which we exchanged on Christmas Eve after Midnight Mass, usually with a great deal of teasing along the lines of “I wonder who this gift is for” and trying to mislead the guessing about who had who as their Christkind. Gift giving at Christmas tended to be low key in our family, so the Christkind gift was a highlight. Finding ways to do random acts of kindness in our small family, in what was often a very small home without any other family member figuring it out required stealth, ingenuity, and imagination. It was also a great deal of fun.
While each of those things was enjoyable for its own sake, they all certainly heightened our anticipation for what we'd been waiting for: Christmas itself.
I am living on my own this year, so most of those well loved traditions are not possible. Instead, I have decided to prepare for Christmas quietly, with a mini fast as spiritual preparation for the coming of the Christ Child. I will limit my internet access at home, and there will be no running across the street to buy cups of London Fog tea while at work. Oh, how I do love that London Fog tea! I will do a thorough clean of my cozy apartment, and choose a few of my favourite decorations to dress it up a little in honour of the season. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers with the intention of a holy and peaceful Advent season of preparation.
We’d love to hear from you. What are your Advent traditions? How will you be preparing for Christmas, physically and spiritually?